Learning how to turn a guy on isn’t exactly rocket science. The truth is that it’s so simple; you’d wonder “Why didn’t I think of that?”
Women have an idea of what guys find sexy, and yes, while short skirts and plunging necklines do help, a lot of the overt seduction styles women employ can be a little bit too much for a guy to handle.
They can get spooked, turned off, or intimidated, and if a woman’s goal is to reel the man in, then she probably has to re-think her strategy. [Read – 6 Very Irritating Things Women Do That Turn Men Off]
It’s not that hard to find a man’s on/off switch, so it’s really not that necessary to pull out all the stops just to turn a man on. All you need to do is to find out what he likes and you’re good to go. Sounds simple, right? That’s because it is.
Here are a few tips to help you turn any guy on without exerting too much effort.
Dress to Impress
Men are visual creatures, we all know that. A guy can be turned on just by looking at you. Let’s face it, there are women who are naturally hot or beautiful, and there are some that need a little bit of help.
The best way to impress a guy with your looks is to start from the inside out. Yes, a good personality counts, but we’re talking about looks here. [Read – How To Look HOT and Sexier]
Start by getting sexy and flattering underwear. If you feel sexy, you look sexy, and then there’s the added boost of having your “assets” emphasized. The same goes with the clothes you wear.
Choose something modest, yet flattering, like a t-shirt and a pair of jeans that shows off your nice behind, or a dress that shows off your curves without revealing too much skin.
The Casual Touch
If you’ve ever felt something different when your shoulders touch or his hand brushes a strand of hair away from your face, it may be more than just static electricity. If you felt it, chances are he’ll feel the same way when you brush up against him.
Be on the lookout for situations where you can touch him lightly with your hand or with other parts of your body. You can almost see the sparks a light casual touch creates, especially in romantic situations.
Talk the Talk
A smart girl is a big turn on for a lot of guys. Luckily, you don’t have to be the brightest one in the bunch to carry an intelligent conversation with a man.
Don’t just nod in agreement when he’s telling you about what he thinks about a particular topic. Share your opinions, too, and don’t worry if you don’t see eye to eye. A little bit of friction can only lead to sparks.
If you’re the well-organized and sometimes uptight type, then it might be a good idea to let loose and do something out of character from time to time.
If you’ve made very detailed plans, rip it up and just wing it. Men love it when a woman lets her hair down and shows her adventurous side.
This shows them that you are full of life and that you’re a lot of fun to be with. Of course, in their subconscious, they’re wondering how spontaneous and adventurous you are in bed as well.
Brush Up On Guy Talk
More than just physical attraction, guys are also turned on by a girl they can talk to about things that have nothing to do with feelings or relationships.
If you share an interest in a particular sport, use that as a springboard to show off what you know. Engage in a lively discussion (or debate) about your favorite athletes and sports teams.
If you’re not into sports, then find something else you have in common. Just remember, that you’re not trying to be his best buddy, so make sure that you do this with finesse. [Read – 23 Fun and Cutest Things to Do With Your Boyfriend]
Men get turned on when a woman is comfortable in her own skin. As you may already have discovered, guys do everything to avoid the clingy, needy types. If you’re confident enough about yourself, it will shine through and men will take notice.
With confidence also comes assertiveness, so don’t be ashamed to let a guy know what you want.
Of course, there is a fine line between being assertive and coming on a little too strong, so be sure to read the guy’s body language to know if you’re turning him on or pushing him away.
Tease Him a Little
Men love the thrill of the chase, so why not give him what he wants. Adding a little mystery will only pique his interest and make him want to uncover whatever it is he thinks you’re hiding.
Pay him enough attention to get him interested, and then pull away. Compliment him, and then pretend you don’t notice him.
Not knowing whether you’re into him or not won’t just turn him on. It will drive him crazy and make him want you more.
Have a Sense of Humor
You don’t have to crack a joke every 5 minutes to be considered funny. Just relax and let the humor come out naturally.
Tell funny stories and laugh genuinely when it’s his turn to share some funny anecdotes. Not only will this make the atmosphere lighter, it can also make him feel more connected to you.
Stimulate His Other Senses
While the way a girl look can easily turn a guy on, there are other senses you can tantalize in order to get him in the mood. The way a girl smells can also turn a man on. This doesn’t mean you should spray tons of perfume all over you body.
You just need to smell good enough to catch and keep his attention. You would also want your voice to sound like music to his ears.
It doesn’t really matter how you sound, it’s what you say to him that counts. Whispering something naughty in his ear will earn you an instant reaction.
A lot of girls try really hard to impress a guy by trying to be someone they’re not. This can work at first, but unfortunately, most, if not all, of these women get so caught up in their charade that they forget who they really are.
The truth is, men are turned on by real women. Besides, if you were to turn a guy on, wouldn’t you want to be sure that he’s turned on by you, and not who you’re pretending to be?
One of the biggest mistakes women make when attempting to turn a guy on is that they try too hard. Men don’t really like it when women come on too strong or seem too desperate.
To turn a guy on, just keep things light and subtle and watch how he positively respond to the way you look and the way you make him feel.