Men don’t really have a good track record when it comes to expressing how they feel for someone, so how can you tell if a guy loves you?
Men can tell it like it is when discussing anything – except their feelings.
Some men are just really uncomfortable when the topic of emotions comes up while some are just looking for some assurance that they won’t be turned down when they finally open up.
How can you tell if he has genuine feelings for you? No worry, after studying men’s behavior we prepared the below list of 22 definite signs. Just read them 🙂
1. He pays attention and remembers what you say
When you’re getting to know each other, you get to talk about a lot of random things. If a guy is in love with you, he really pays attention and he will remember not only the important things you say, but even random stuff you may have mentioned.
2. He lets you know what’s happening in his life
Men need space to do their own thing, but if a guy is in love with you he’ll let you know what he’s up to even if you don’t ask him. It doesn’t mean that he’ll let you tag along, but he will let you know where he’s going and who he’s with without having to beat it out of him.
3. He puts you first
Whether it’s choosing what movie to watch or where to have dinner, he will put your wants and needs ahead of his. He’ll take you to your favorite Japanese restaurant even if he hates sushi, and he won’t complain about it. [Read – 8 Ways To Get a Guy to Ask You Out That Always Work]
4. He listens
Men aren’t known for being good listeners, but if a man is in love with you, he will. He’ll listen to your stories and your rants. He’ll ask you how your day was and he’ll pay attention to every little detail.
5. He makes plans with you
It doesn’t matter whether your man is the spontaneous type or the type who plans everything before making a move, if he starts talking about a future with you, you’ll know he’s in love with you.
6. His attention is all on you
When you’re in a party or any kind of public or social gathering, a man in love won’t notice that hot blonde that just passed by because his eyes are stuck on you.
7. He makes time for you
Yes, he’s busy, and yes, you are interrupting something important, but he won’t mind. Okay, maybe he will, but he will welcome the distraction and spend a little time with you before he goes back to whatever it is he’s doing.
8. He’ll defend you
His friends think you’re all wrong for him, but if he’s really in love with you, he’ll stand up for you and defend your relationship. ‘Nuff said.
9. He opens up to you
A man needs to have an emotional connection with someone before he opens up about his feelings, his problems, and what his plans are for the future. If he trusts you and feels comfortable enough to let you know about these things, then he’s most likely in love with you.
10. He’s always there for you
A man in love will drop everything when the object of his affection needs him. When you’re in in a tough spot and you need help, or if you need someone to comfort you when you’re feeling sad, he’ll always be by your side. [Read – 7 Obvious Signs He Is Ready To Commit]
11. He worries about you
If you’re driving home alone, or if you’re taking a trip with your friends, the last thing you hear from him before you say goodbye is “Call me when you get there so I know you’re okay.”
12. What you think is important to him
A man who is in love with you values your opinions. He wants to know your take on things and he may ask you what you think before he makes an important decision in his life.
13. He doesn’t let you out of his sight
Men are already territorial by nature, so can you imagine how a man in love would react when there are other guys who are trying to get your attention? He’ll put his arms around you more than usual to make sure that the other guys see that you’re off-limits.
14. He wants to spend more time with you
A man who’s in love with you would want to spend more time with you. You’ll find yourself talking to him more often and he’ll find and use every excuse in the book just to see you.
15. He smiles at you for no reason
It may seem like a random act of flirting for you, but for a man in love, he can’t help but stare and smile at the girl who makes his heart skip a beat.
16. Your annoying quirks are what endear you to him
Everyone has one or two annoying habits that can turn people off, but if he’s in love with you, he won’t mind. In fact, it might be what he loves about you. [Read – What is Unconditional Love – 5 Signs of True Love In a Relationship]
17. He puts you ahead of his friends
What?! Is this even possible? Yes, it is. If he’s in love with you, he’ll want to spend more time with you even if his friends think he’s being a wuss.
18. He uses the word “We” or “Us” more often
Guys often don’t realize they’re doing this, but when they’re in love with someone, they usually substitute “I” or “Me” with “We” or “Us” when talking about what’s going in his life or his plans for the future. This just means you’re already a part of his life.
19. He becomes more touchy-feely when he’s around you
Guys who aren’t big on public displays of affection are more open to it when he’s in love with the woman he’s with.
20. He tries to impress your friends and family
A man in love knows that he has to make a good impression on your friends and family, and he does what he can for them to like him.
21. He apologizes
If a man is in love with you, he doesn’t want you to be mad at him. He will apologize immediately if he’s done something to offend you.
22. Your voice is the last thing he wants to hear at night
He calls you up before he goes to bed. Need I say more?
Every man is different, but falling in love can make them do things that are out of character. If the guy you’re dating suddenly shows any of these signs, then chances are he is already falling in love with you.