Pick up lines don’t work, but these romantic phrases are proven to make most girls more attracted to you instantly. Find out what they are.
Women want romance and guys need to try harder to be more romantic if they want to get the girl.
While big surprises, flowers, chocolates, and romantic dinners show her how special she is to you, it’s the little things that can really melt her heart.
Some may argue that words are overrated, but it’s not enough to just show her that you care.
You have to tell her how you feel as well. Before you go on and embarrass yourself by blurting out something incoherent or delivering a cheesy line that raises eyebrows, you need to know what you’re doing first.
It’s Not Just What You Say; It’s How You Say It
Even the cheesiest lines can sound like music to a girl’s ears if it comes from the heart. The key to dishing out the perfect romantic phrases is sincerity.
Make SURE that you mean what you say and you say what you mean. No matter how beautiful your words are, they won’t make an impact if you don’t feel it. [Read – The Key To Being More Romantic and Get More Action In Bed]
The next thing you would need to consider is the timing of it all. What you say and when you say it can set the mood of your date. It can also set the tone of your relationship.
Expressing too much, too soon can seem like you’re rushing it and cast doubt on your motives. Too little, too late on the other hand, won’t get you anywhere.
TRUST your instincts. You’ll know when the time is right and watch her eyes sparkle and go weak in the knees when she hears what you have to say.
Sweet Lines Girls Absolutely Love to Hear
Men who dread having to say something romantic would be surprised at how SIMPLE it is to win a girl over with words. There’s really no need for the whole mushy, overly dramatic spiel you only hear handsome leading men deliver in movies (although that’s fine if you can pull it off). What a girl wants to hear is what’s in your heart.
All it takes is a simple line or two, delivered at the right moment, to make a heart race. The idea is to make her want a second date with you or add a little bit of romance to an already existing relationship.
Here are a few lines you could use to make her swoon.
You have a very beautiful smile
Complimenting her smile shows that you’ve been paying attention to her and that you’re looking at her face instead of other parts of her anatomy.
Use this as a conversation starter or blurt it out in the middle of the conversation and notice that she won’t be able to wipe her smile off her beautiful face.
You look beautiful/incredible/stunning
It’s quite obvious that women love compliments. Telling a girl she gooks great never gets old. In fact, it’s something women never tire of hearing.
Whether you’re seeing a girl for the first time or you’ve been with her for years, telling her how beautiful she is will always make her want to give you a hug.
Another way of delivering this simple but effective line is to give your girl a bouquet of flowers or if appropriate, jewelry. When she says, “They’re so beautiful!” answer with, “Yes, they are, but they’re not as beautiful as you.” (Quite common but it still works, believe me)
I feel like the luckiest man on earth
Of all the men you can choose to go out with/be in a relationship with/marry, you chose me. Every girl wants to feel special, and telling her how lucky you feel to have her in your life gives her that.
This tells her that you appreciate her and you won’t do anything to jeopardize what the two of you have.
There’s no “BEST TIME” to drop this line. It is better said when the moment is right and you really mean it.
I never believed in soul mates until now/until I met you
This may sound a bit cheesy to some, especially if you say this on a first date, but let’s face it. A lot of women believe in the idea of soul mates whether they want to admit it or not.
Again, by telling her that you’ve changed your mind about the existence of soul mates, you are telling her that she’s SPECIAL, and more importantly, she may be the one.
My life feels complete now that you’re here
This is a spin on Tom Cruise’s line in the movie Jerry Maguire. Instead of quoting Mr. Cruise and saying “You complete me,” or any other romantic movie line that was written to make girls all weepy, change it up and make it your own.
This way, you get to express what you really feel and you may just get bonus points for originality.
You’re the best thing that has ever happened to me
Women need to be needed. They need to know that they’ve made an impact in your life, and the BEST way to do that is to thank them for coming into your life and making your days a little bit brighter.
It won’t hurt to show a little vulnerability. Knowing that a man has a soft side can be a big turn on for women, too.
I LOVE YOU
These three words are often taken for granted and thrown around like it’s no big deal.
People really SHOULDN’T say it if they don’t really mean it, because the truth is, it is a big deal, especially for women. Who would have thought that one short sentence comprised of three simple words can hold so much meaning.
At the right place and the right time, saying I love you can open the door to a blissful and happy relationship. [Read – The Best Time To Say I Love You Without Having Fear of Rejection]
Words are more POWERFUL than people think. You can orchestrate an elaborate romantic date and still botch it by not being able to say how you feel.
Unfortunately, expressing our feelings isn’t as simple as memorizing a few lines or delivering a romantic monologue straight out of a popular movie. It’s about knowing how you feel and using your words to express them.
When you’re at a loss for words, take a deep breath and collect your thoughts and just say what you feel.
As long as it comes from your heart, your girl will come to like you, or better yet, love you for your honesty and sincerity, and for being able to make her blush over and over again.