Inside every woman is a fiery seductress waiting to come out. Unleash the sensual sex goddess in you by learning how to please your man in bed.
Most men try really hard to please their women in bed, and it won’t hurt if women do the same for them.
It’s not too hard to figure out what men want when it comes to sex, but it’s not as simple as flicking a few switches either.
Pleasing a man in bed boils down to technique and execution, and every now and then, adding something new to the mix to make things exciting.
It is important to know your partner very well in order to please him. Know what he likes and where he likes to be touched – or licked.
The better you KNOW your partner, the more you can please him. Don’t forget that when a man is satisfied, he will be more than happy to return the favor. [Read – Things That Men Want In Bed But Not Telling You]
Pleasing a man in bed isn’t exactly rocket science, but there will come a point in your relationship when both of you develop a comfortable routine and your man may want something a little more than just the usual.
Add some excitement in the bedroom by understanding your man a little bit better and learning about what he wants and learning a few new moves to stimulate all of his senses and keep him coming back for more.
Here are a few tips that would surely turn your man on and make him want you even more than he did before.
1. Seduce Him
Just because you’ve been sleeping with your man for quite some time now, doesn’t mean seduction isn’t necessary. Every now and then, it’s nice to rekindle that special time in your relationship where everything felt new and exciting.
You know your partner quite well and you know what turns him on, so get those wheels in your head turning and plan a night of seduction, passion and excitement.
An example of what you can do is to have a romantic candlelit dinner prepared when he comes home.
Don’t forget to dress nice and make sure you have your sexiest lingerie on underneath. [Read – How To Look Hot and Sexy]
Flirt with him at dinner and watch the puzzled reaction on his face as he begins to realize what you’re trying to do. Whisper naughty things into his ear and lead him to the bedroom for a night he won’t soon forget. [More tips – 5 Creative Tricks to Exhibit Your Secret Sexual Desire]
2. Get Creative
Men love trying new things when it comes to sex and maybe you should be open to trying new stuff, too.
You can make his fantasies come to life by getting some costumes ready for a steaming night of role playing, play sex games, place a full length mirror next to your bed so that you can see yourselves as you make love, go skinny dipping, try new sexual positions, take it outside the four walls of your bedroom,or bring some excitement to foreplay by using food to spice things up.
There are so many new things out there that couples can try, but make sure that you choose something that you are comfortable with so you can enjoy it as much as he does.
Use your imagination and match it with what you think will make him crazy. [Read – 7 Fun and Sexy Games to Spice Up Your Love Life]
3. Know Your Man’s Pleasure Trigger
Women don’t have monopoly over erogenous zones. Men have them, too, and if you find the spot that tickles his fancy, then you certainly can’t go wrong. Aside from the obvious places, there are other parts of the body that can get a man’s blood pumping.
There are hot spots in his body that he possibly did not know existed. Have fun exploring these sensitive zones together and hear his breath get heavier and heavier as you get closer and closer to the right spot.
The key here is your SENSITIVITY to how he reacts every time you touch a certain part of his body. The way you do that sensual touch matters as well, so explore and trigger his pleasures!
4. Don’t Be Afraid to Ask
Talking about sex with your man may be something you’re not used to, but open and honest communication can help you figure out what makes your man tick and give him what he wants in bed.
Talking about what he wants you to do to him in bed is also quite hot and it may just lead to some hot, steamy sex. [10 Mind-Blowing Tips To Have a GREAT & SPICY Sex Life]
It’s also a good idea to ask him if you’re hitting the spot in a sexy whisper while you’re having sex. Not only are you able to figure out if what you’re doing brings pleasure to him or not, you’re also incorporating some of the dirty talk men love so much.
5. Let Him Please You
Hearing a girl genuinely moan in pleasure is the fuel that drives them to a more powerful orgasm. Knowing that they’re good at what they’re doing is also a big boost to their ego, so go ahead and let him take you to new heights.
Guide him by telling him where you want to be touched and respond to every touch with a gasp or a moan.
If he’s doing it right, it’ll come out naturally, so put your worries aside and just enjoy the special treatment you’re getting and see how he enjoys this as much as you do.
6. Confidence. Confidence. Confidence
There’s no bigger turn on for a guy than a woman who is comfortable in her own skin. Sexy isn’t how your figure looks, it’s about how you make the most of what you have. To your man, the size of your waistline or thighs doesn’t matter.
He’s there with you because he loves you and he wants to be with you despite your flaws, so leave whatever inhibitions you have outside and just embrace the fact that you’re sharing something special with someone you love.
The more confident you are, the easier it is to find ways to please him and the more he would want to please you.
The key to getting your man in the mood and pleasing him in bed is to just relax and enjoy the moment you have with him. Perfect sex doesn’t have to be FLAWLESS.
In fact, some of the hottest, steamiest sexual encounters can get a bit messy. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes, try new things and explore your own sexuality.
Men respond very well to a woman who knows what she wants and knows how to get it. If you really want to please your man in bed, talk to him about what you’re planning.
This way, you won’t be wasting your time trying out things he isn’t interested in and it may open your mind to things you never thought you’d do for a man. And during your talk, make sure that when you tell your plans, you also listen to his thoughts.
Sharing each other’s ideas will result into a much better plan. Communication doesn’t only help you satisfy your man in bed, it can also help you create a deeper, more intimate relationship with each other – one of the keys to a long lasting and loving relationship.