It’s always exciting, thinking about starting a new relationship or even just going on a single date with someone new. Dating is one of those things where there is really no right and wrong, only different people with different tastes.
Not everyone is a match for each other, which makes dating somewhat of a challenge.
If you have not been on a date before, or are just entering the dating market after a long break, you may have forgotten how to date a girl.
Here are some simple steps that will get you started in dating a girl.
Step #1 To Date a Girl
In order to date a girl, you have to first meet her. Maybe you have had your eye on a single friend who is a girl and wouldn’t mind taking her out for a special evening. Or, perhaps, your friend wants to hook you up with a blind date.
These are both viable options, but there are plenty of other ways to meet girls. [Read – 9 Steps To Attract Beautiful Women Without Any Effort]
Sign Up For Online Dating
It used to be that only the desperate people would sign up online to meet someone new. The truth is that today people are so busy that they miss opportunities to meet new people due to work or time constraints.
This is no reason why you cannot meet and date new people. There are a plethora of online dating sites available and you can find one that suits your taste. Are you Christian, looking to date a Christian girl – there’s a site for meeting those kinds of people.
If you search through the search engines you will inevitably run across a dating site that is designed to cater to people with your wants and needs. Just make sure your profile is good enough to get attention. [Read – 7 Steps To Write a Striking Online Dating Profile]
Ask Your Friends or Family
Friends and family members are always trying to play matchmaker or cupid. If you have had trouble meeting the right girl, why not ask your friends and family members if they have a friend who is willing to meet with you for a date?
Many times, people meet their future spouses simply through family members and friends.
Try Speed Dating
Speed dating has become the new “in” thing to do because it allows you to meet several people in a short time. You get to sit and visit with several prospective partners for about 5-10 minutes each and then move onto the next. If you are interested in any, you can pursue a conversation after the session is over.
Since most of us know whether we are interested in getting to know someone better in that short of a time, it is a good solution that does not require a hefty time commitment.
Since we spend most of our waking hours at work, it only makes sense that the cute girl who answers the phones at the front desk or the executive who looks sexy in her suits has caught your eye.
The only potential problem with dating people that you work with is the fact that most employers restrict dating in the workforce. They fear it interferes with productivity and as a result, most of these relationships have to be kept hush-hush.
Another potential problem is dating a superior is definitely not welcomed and careful considerations must be made.
Step #2 To Date a Girl
Express your interest in taking her out. We don’t want to have to spell it out for you. While some of us may be aggressive and willing to go after what we want, we want to know that you are interested in us.
Show us your interest by asking us out. It’s okay to be nervous; it’s very likely that we are too. [Read – What Attracts Women – 7 Secrets You Should Know About Attracting Women]
Someone has to take the first step though and if you don’t we will just consider the fact that you simply are not interested in more than friendship. Here are some date ideas – both romantic and casual – to spark your creativity.
A Romantic Dinner
As women, we love to be romanced. It is a great way to show that you are interested enough that you are willing to put a good amount of effort into making us happy. A romantic dinner is a great idea, even if for a first date – it allows you to make a good impression right off the bat.
You can hold a romantic dinner at a cafe or an upscale restaurant. It is not a good idea to hold a first date at either of your places unless you have known each other for some time and this is a friendship escalating past that point. [Read – Romantic Phrases That Will Make Any Girl Swoon]
A Fun Night Out On the Town
Got a girl who loves to dance? Take her out for a night on the town. You can take her to a club or to a dance hall and get your groove on. This is the perfect way to show her that you are in tune with her interests and are willing to adapt in order to show her a good time.
Other ideas for a fun night on the town include the movies, recreational activities such as bowling and mini golf.
Picnic or Casual Lunch
For someone who has just met, a romantic dinner might be too much and a fun night out on the town might be too nerve wracking. Instead, you can opt for a picnic or otherwise casual lunch – skip the fast food, please, it’s not romantic and it screams cheap – as an icebreaker and a way to get to know one another without any added pressure.
Step #3 To Dating a Girl
Make the effort to show her you are interested. Yes, you’ve already asked her out on a date, but here is your chance to really shine. Buy her flowers or candy. Better yet, ask her friends or family members – if you know them – what she likes and surprise her.
We love when men fuss over us and make us feel as though we are the only woman on Earth. There is no better way to win our hearts than to show us that we matter and that you genuinely appreciate us. Simple gestures are what matter. Here are some ways you can be a gentleman:
Open the Car Door or Building Door For Us
You may think this went out of style back in the 1950s, but the truth is it is still a chivalrous thing to do. We love that you don’t want us getting dirty or struggling to open a door. Show us your muscles and gentlemanly side and trust us, we’ll reward you for it with our appreciation.
Granted, not all women like this, but most of us do. The feminism movement wasn’t designed to rid you of all your manly duties – we just wanted equal rights. [Read – 6 of the Most Important Body Language Tips To Attract Women]
Call Us or Text Us Just to Say Hello
There is nothing we like more than knowing we are not far from your mind. Texting us or calling us once every few days to let us know you were thinking of us is a good way to turn us into a bowl of mush. [Read – The Perfect Time To Say ‘I Love You’]
Don’t go overboard, though, otherwise you will appear to be clingy. You don’t like it when women are clingy, we don’t like it when men are. It goes both ways. Show us your interest but keep our curiosity piqued at the same time.
Finally, ask her out again, if you are genuinely interested. There is no better way to end a good date by asking her out for another one. Don’t tell her you’ll call and make her wait three or four days – it will only drive her crazy.
Just tell how you feel before you leave her that night. Do you want to see her again or do you feel that she would be better off seeing other people? Honesty counts, big time, and lying to a woman is not the way to end the night, no matter how good or bad it was.